Father’s Day
Thank you, Dad. For everything
you’ve done for me
Generally,
third Sunday of June is celebrated as Father’s Day in India and many other
eastern and western countries. We know the Mother’s Day on second Sunday of
May. And we always see many ads, articles and posts about Mother’s Day and
showing importance of Mothers in lives. But Father’s Day is always ignored,
just like Men’s Day. What is it? Is Father is less important than Mother in our
life? People say that a mother can take care of a child even without father.
But in other hand, we’ve many examples in which Father has also cared for his
child when the mother has gone or died. We’ve always disgraced our Father
compared to our mother. No, I’m not saying against mothers or women. But still,
I feel that men and fathers should be given equal importance. If a mother gives
birth to a child, a father also raises him/her and takes his/her
responsibilities. He also sacrifices his many dreams only to fulfil his child’s
requirements. He could never see tears in his child’s eyes, because those tears
indicate his failure in taking care of his child. Every child sees superhero in
his/her father. And a father can never fail. Because he is their superhero,
their guardian. How could he fail?
When
we see our mother crying, we try to calm her by wiping her tears. But when we
see our father crying, believe me, it’s the saddest moment of our life. Our
half courage breaks down at that particular moment. When we see our superhero
crying, what else can we do for him? And we always know that there is a bigger
reason behind his tears, because fathers are believed strong, and if they’re
crying, there is something wrong. So, we can’t bear tears in our father’s eyes.
And I personally don’t like that scene.
The
other thing is that our father makes many sacrifices throughout his life only
to secure our future. Apparently, he has many expectations from us. But still,
if we fail to fulfil his expectations, he doesn’t say a word. He still inspires
us to move on and get other achievements.
I
recall one incident from my past life when I was in HSC. Board results were
about to come and I was sitting in front of my computer screen, eagerly waiting
for results. Everyone had great expectations from me, because I was
considerably bright student of my class. But when my results came, I was completely
broken. I could get barely first class. I, my friends and teachers had hoped
for distinctions and more. But all I could get, was 61%. My father sat beside
me, when the results came. Despite of my disappointment, I glanced at him with
the corner of my eye, and I saw that sad eyes staring still at computer screen.
Once I had believed my fate, but he couldn’t accept that. But still, despite of
that unexpected down result, he didn’t say me a word. Perhaps, he believed me.
He knew that I deserved more. But it was over now. At that evening, he only
inspired me to overcome my failure and begin a new life with a new dream. He
advised me to chase a new dream. And I followed his advice. Though I failed to
stand over his expectations many times, he still believes me. He has trust in
my capabilities, even I don’t have now.
The
conclusion is: Our fathers do everything to make us happy. So technically, it’s
our noble responsibility to respect him. We’ve his name and we can feel proud
due to only and only his name. So, we have no right to destroy his name, fame
and glory. He never makes you follow his path, but he shows us the path. He is
our true mentor.
Only
a father knows the real world and its consequences. So he teaches us how to
deal with this world. He makes us a man. A journey from a boy to teenager and
from a teenager to a man. And the one man who never leaves us, is our Father.
A
father is our role model and we always want to become like him. A father
teaches his son how to be a good husband, son, son-in-law, and moreover a good
father. A father loves his daughter more than any man could ever do. And that’s
why each girl sees her father as her first love. And believe me, girls love
fathers more than us (boys). Because they say there is only one man on the earth
on whom they can blindly trust. FATHER.
Finally,
thank you, Dad, for everything you’ve done for me. And thank you that you’ve
maintained your faith in me for all these years. Thank you for inspiring me
when I was broken down. Thank you for believing me when no one had belief.
Thank you to fulfil my each request and desire. Thank you, Dad. Thank you very
much.
Thank
you, God. You’ve given me such a precious relation. I’ll always owe you for
this.
